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4/11/17 4/11/17

Sermon Discussion Luke 19:28-40

We are in the midst of our Holy Week celebration. Here’s a few questions to stir up conversation and worship of our humble king. These questions are to support Sunday’s sermon as well as reflection for the week. You can view Sunday’s sermon from Luke 19:28-40 online here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a5OpAXlkmWA
On Palm Sunday, Jesus makes his ‘triumphal entrance’ into Jerusalem. Triumphal can be defined as, “made, carried out, or used in celebration of a great victory or achievement.” What we see in this passage is in fact a great celebration. But the victory or achievement celebrated is not what the Jews were expecting. They clearly wanted a physical king who would establish the nation of Israel over Caesar; however, Jesus didn’t come to overthrow the Roman political powerhouse. He came to overthrow the powerhouse that we all battle with and cannot achieve victory by ourselves – namely our sin it the pending judgement because of it. In Sunday’s sermon, pastor Aaron highlighted that all 4 gospel accounts include the triumphal entry and various events of Holy Week. He pointed out that it is because of emphasis and the gospel writers wanting the focus of Jesus to be on these events. By way of application, how can you turn your attention this week to what took place during Holy Week? Try to think through specific ways you can worship Jesus this week and not just intake more information. Some resources can be found on our Facebook Page.

The first main point in Sunday’s sermon stated that Jesus fulfills OT prophecies as Messiah. Pastor Aaron briefly mentioned that Jesus is the Passover lamb that was selected on this day. The focus of this main point was about the messiah riding on a donkey and more specifically a colt (Zechariah 9:9) We also see a similar event in Israel’s history as Solomon was celebrated as king and rode on his father’s mule. (See 1 Kings 1:32-40). Here’s a few questions: What does this animal represent? Why is it significant that no one has ever rode this colt? Notice the contrast between a peaceful donkey in this passage and a war horse in Revelation 19:11-16

To highlight the peace that Jesus brings think through the following:

-How has Jesus brought peace between God and man? – Think through specific truths/verses that highlight this peace.

-How has Jesus brought peace between men (and women!) – How have you seen the gospel bring reconciliation in relationships?

-How has Jesus brought peace between man and creation? -As the curse in the garden brought toil and struggle in our work – how has Jesus redeemed our work and daily vocations?

Grace has been extended to us so we can have shalom – peace, wholeness, restoration. While that shalom has been extended to us already, it is not yet fully consummated and thus we battle. But we battle together. – Who do you need to extend grace to? Maybe you can send them a donkey emoji. :)

The second main point of Sunday’s sermon was Jesus is received by the crowd – kind of.

As previously mentioned, the crowd was looking for a king to overthrow the political authorities – namely Caesar and Rome. This crowd laid their cloaks as a proverbial red carpet and shouted loud praises to their King – they wanted to crown him…but in the days to follow they would shout crucify him. The irony is glaring. And then we come to the Pharisees; they didn’t know how to respond to the crowd. They could not longer control the response of the people so they tell Jesus to control them – Luke 19:39. But he would not. The crowd was forming and influencing the Pharisees and how they lived their lives. Similarly, how might we be like the Pharisees and allowing the world to be influencing me more than Jesus? Pastor Aaron mentioned 3 areas of application to think through answering this question?

-Time: When life gets tough or full, what’s the first to be sacrificed? Netflix or Life Group; Social Media or time in the word/prayer; spending time investing in people or dreaming up your next vacation?

-Talent – What unique talent has the Lord endowed you with – and how are you using it to bless the body? -Think through needs in your LG or ways you can help individuals in the church body. If you aren’t sure, chat with your LG leader!

-Treasure – A real challenging question for all of us – are you spending more money on your hobbies or on investing in the kingdom of God? We have a tremendous privilege in this country to impact the world for the gospel, how (specifically) can you open your hand and give to the only cause that eternally matters?

Again, we’re looking not for response of condemnation but of grace. Our heavenly Father has graciously given you all things – Romans 8:32; we in turn are to live for Christ who gave us his all. 2 Cor. 5:14-15

We are constantly being formed and molded by the culture we live in – whether we know it or not. The amount of information we intake on a daily basis shapes and molds us. That’s why Paul commands us to renew our minds with God’s word in Romans 12:2. The Christian community, gospel message and hope we have are continual means of counter-formation (grace) from the world around us.

In closing, the stones would cry out if the crowd and we do not. This week, how can you cry out to the Lord in praise for who he is and what he’s accomplished for us? One way, join us on Friday at 7:30pm for our Darkening Service. It will be an in-depth time of reflection and response to the finished work on the cross. We hope to see you then and again on Sunday as we celebrate the resurrection of our King!

4/8/17 4/8/17

Sunday Gathering, April 9th

Here is our weekly blog that we post in hopes of helping those coming to The Crossing’s Sunday Gathering to engage and prepare our hearts to worship King Jesus. We will highlight the Scripture that we will preach on as well as the songs we will be singing.

Here are a three simple ways to prepare your heart:

1) Read through and meditate on the text that will be preached that Sunday with your family or friends.

2) Sing, listen or read through some of the song lyrics that we will sing together and ask God to grow and strengthen our faith and understanding of Him through them.

3) Pray for God to reveal Himself to you and the The Crossing in powerful ways!

Worship through the Word:

Luke 19:28-40

Worship through Singing:

The Church’s One Foundation How Can I Keep From Singing Man of Sorrows Grace That Is Greater Here is Love

4/5/17 4/5/17

Sermon Discussion - Philippians 1:27-30

Are you worthy?
Karsten posed the question of how we approach buying a car: is it worth the price & will it be dependable? What about people, how do we know if we’re worthy? As we look at Paul’s letter to the Philippian church, he poses a question in this passage: Are we living a life worthy of the Gospel?

In 1:27, Paul says that our lives should be lived out in way that is “worthy of the Gospel.”

Q: What does Paul mean by “the gospel”? How would you explain the gospel in just a few statements? (see Jn 3:16-17 & 1 Cor 15:1-6)

The crux of the Gospel is that it is something God has done for us, not something we can do for ourselves. All of us either reject or accept this for ourselves. Yet, Paul calls us to live in a way that embodies our response of gratitude & obedience to the Gospel.

Q: What does ‘living a life worthy of this’ look like? How does this look in your day to day life?

In the rest of vs 27, Paul emphasizes the importance of living in unity, working side by side with other believers. United by the Spirit and/or united in a common spirit of service. Having one mind, being unified in their purpose and practice. They are to ‘take their orders’ from Jesus, as a battalion of soldiers would be united under their commander. One of the ways this is lived out by us today is through our LifeGroups.

Q: How does this look in your LifeGroup? In what areas do you see unity and in what ways are you still working on being unified?

In vs 28, Paul tells the Philippians that we’re to do this without fear, though we recognize the opposition that exists. Paul knew what it was like to be opposed. We can also see opposition to the Gospel in our own priorities, like how we use our money and how we spend our time. In many ways, our world system is in opposition to the Gospel.
Q: how do you see that type of opposition in your experience? How do you tend to respond to it?

The great reminder is that no opposition can take our salvation away, cannot take away the power of the gospel.

Finally, in vs 29-30, Paul reminds the believers in Philippi (and us) that we show our lives as worthy of the gospel by suffering for Christ. This can manifest in many ways, some more outward and some ways that are about inner suffering. Either way, we need to keep in mind that suffering comes out of God’s sovereignty, as part of His plan for us:

For our good -we’re refined and made more & more into Christ’s likeness
For the good of others -we’re used to affect others for the Gospel

Suffering is always for a purpose. It’s not for nothing. We can trust God with our suffering because that’s what Jesus did when He faced the cross. We don’t always see the reason for our suffering, but we can trust that the power of the Gospel will be shown through it, as in Paul’s life.

Q: how do you tend to respond to suffering? If you’re able to be vulnerable, share an example of a time of suffering you’ve experienced and how the Gospel may have been ‘proclaimed’ through it.

It takes tremendous faith, that can only come from God, to be grateful in a time of suffering. Perhaps you can close in prayers of gratitude to the Lord for His Gospel that both saves us and empowers us to live ‘in a worthy manner’.

3/28/17 3/28/17

Sermon Discussion Questions John 5:1-14

TPQ’s – Thought Provoking Questions:

Pastor Aaron started his sermon with a few statements that are often misquoted and thus misrepresented as scripture. These included, “money is the root of all evil” and “cleanliness is next to godliness.” Can you think of any other statements like this that often misrepresent scripture?

Another false statement mentioned was “God only helps those who help themselves.” How is this statement in opposition to the gospel?

THE INVALID MAN

We see early on in this passage that this invalid man was known and cared for by Jesus. First he was known (John 5:6); there is the possibility that this man was not just invalid but also had no motivation to get better. While he had in fact suffered for so many years, there also seems to be no indication that he wanted to get better. This is why Jesus’ first statement to him was, “Do you want to be healed?” Essentially Jesus is asking for a response that will result in action. No more would this man be given the proverbially “handouts” but he would need a radical shift in his life to change his circumstances. But, the question remained, do you want to be healed?

There is much hope for us in a similar situation. Often times we can wish we had different circumstances in our lives. These circumstances can be characterized by sickness, financial hardship, relational tensions, job dissatisfaction, having toddlers (j/k their a blessing!), or by the mere fact that you don’t have something (or someone) that everyone else around you seems to take such delight in. Whatever it is, the Lord Jesus knows you, cares for you and moves towards you. While he might not give you the “thing” you’re desiring most, he still knows you intimately and has promised to meet all of your needs. (Romans 8:32) I’m reminded of the Charles Spurgeon quote, “Remember this, had any other condition been better for you than the one in which you are, Divine Love, would have put you there.”

Read Psalm 139:1-6 How is the fact that the Lord knows intimately good news? How is the fact that the Lord knows us better than we know ourselves scary news? Yet like this man, he still moves towards us in compassion and heals us.

As pastor Aaron highlighted, we see Jesus moving towards individuals in his ministry. We’ve seen that with this invalid man, the Samaritan woman, Nicodemus, John the Baptizer, and some of his disciples. By way of application for this section, who is the individual you’re moving towards? Who do you have compassion for that you want to see ultimately healed by Jesus? Share that with your LG and pray for them as a community. If you can’t identify someone, think through the co-worker or neighbor who’s having a hard time. Maybe it’s someone in your Life Group that you feel the Lord prodding you to cultivate a relationship with.

THE JEWS

So right off the bat from this healing, we see Jesus come into a head on collision with the Jewish leaders. Pastor Aaron pointed out the response of seeing this man healed. Instead of rejoice at this man finally being able to care for himself – they legalistically rebuke him for “breaking the sabbath.” (John 5:10)

How would you define legalism?
Legalism could be defined as any attempt to rely on self-effort to either attain or maintain our justification before God.

Paul’s letter to the Galatian church is to combat this very thing. After the hall of fame truth of our identity in Christ (verse 2:20), he says this, “If righteousness were through the law, then Christ died for no purpose. – Galatians 2:21

Tim Keller says this about it, “Legalism is looking to something besides Jesus Christ in order to be acceptable and clean before God.”

Paul Tripp says this about it, “Legalism devalues grace by looking to the law to produce what only grace can accomplish.”

Pastor Aaron said in his sermon that legalism can be defined as “taking scripture out of context.”

In your experience, how have you seen legalism cause damage inside or outside the church? How can we protect our Life Group from becoming a community of damaging legalists? Be practical and specific!

For more controversies between the Jews and Jesus, check out Luke 6:1-5, Luke 6:6-11, Luke 13:10-17 & Luke 14:1-6. These are great to see more of the insight Jesus had on God’s law as well as how he responded to opposition.

Lastly, how would you answer the question – “why doesn’t Jesus meet all the needs of suffering people?“ Close in praising God for our greatest need being met through Christ and the hope we have of deliverance.

Next Sunday’s Passage: Philippians 1:27-30

3/21/17 3/21/17

Sermon Discussion – John 4:39-54

Hey discussion leaders! Below is a sermon follow up from Pastor Rich’s message from this last Sunday. As usual, feel free to follow or make adjustments as you see fit. I tried to provide answers to the below questions in parentheses, but I intentionally tried to be brief. Don’t just read the answer to your group, but use it in your own studies as you look into God’s word this week to lead your people.
Teaching Goal: Genuine faith trusts in Jesus and obeys his word because of who he is and how he saves, not because of the things he can give us.

Application Goal: To believe in Jesus even when he doesn’t provide the exact sign/miracle/blessing/gift that we desire from him because we perceive his glory.

Thought Provoking Question: Irony is a major theme in this text. Irony is “a state of affairs or an event that seems deliberately contrary to what one expects.” What are some things you’ve discovered in your Christian walk about God or yourself that you didn’t expect?

Read John 4:39-54

What stands out to you from this text and why?

Look at the Text: John 4:39-45

What are some of the comparisons you see John making in John 4:39-45?

(Ironically, the Samaritan’s believed, the Galileans were going to reject Jesus, no honor in his hometown).
(The Samaritan’s believed because of they heard Jesus (John 4:42), but the Galileans were looking for a sign (John 4:48).)

What do you think the significance of this comparison is?

(The Samaritans were “outsiders” and the Galileans “insiders,” but it was the outsiders who believed, see John 1:11-12).
(One is a faith that depends on the word of Jesus; the other seeks proof through signs.)
Why would this be significant?

Did the fact that Jesus knew that he wouldn’t be honored in Galilee keep him from going there and serving? Why do you think he still went?

Are there places in your life where it’s difficult to serve because you don’t think you’ll be appreciated? What are those places?
Are there people in your life that you’re afraid to talk to about Jesus specifically because you fear rejection? Who are they?
What encouragement can we take from Jesus’ example here?

Look at the Text: John 4:46-50

Put yourself in the shoes of the official who has a sick son who is sick “to the point of death.” What are some of the emotions you’d be experiencing as you approach this miracle worker that you’ve heard so much about?

Ironically, Jesus responds very harshly to the man. Why do you think Jesus responds like this?

It’s good to note that the “you” in John 4:48 is plural (like “y’all”), how does this change the way we read what Jesus is saying in John 4:48?

What does this response say about the people in Galilee?
(They desire to see signs; they want to put Jesus to the test).

How does the man respond?

(He persists in asking)
What does this tell you about him?

Ironically, Jesus responds by giving what he asked and performing a great miracle across a large distance. What is the man’s response to Jesus’ words in John 4:50?

“The man believed the word that Jesus spoke to him and went on his way”
What does this say about the man’s faith?
How does this differ from the “faith” of the people in John 4:45 who saw Jesus’ previous signs?
(Namely, he believes the word of Jesus and not just the signs. This is a good place to discuss why it’s important to take God at his word.)

Look at the Text: John 4:51-54

Once again, put yourself into the shoes of the man as he returns home the next day. What are some of the emotions you’re experiencing as you approach your home and as your servants run out to you?

It’s tempting to focus in on the miracle that Jesus performs in this text simply because it is miraculous and wonderful. As Christians, we ought to believe that God can perform signs like this (see Mark 9:23, where the father of another son says to Jesus, “If you can, please help my boy” and Jesus responds with “’If you can’?—all things are possible for one who believes”). So we ought to believe that he can do things like this even today.

However, what are some of the dangers of focusing only on the miraculous healing?

The text ends by saying “This was now the second sign that Jesus did when he had come from Judea to Galilee” (John 4:54). Compare this to how John ended describing Jesus’ first miracle in John 2:11 “This, the first of his signs, Jesus did at Cana in Galilee, and manifested his glory.”

According to John 2:11, what is the purpose of these signs?

(To display the glory of Jesus)

What are the “sign-seekers” of Jesus’ day missing here?

(There are likely other answers, but they don’t see the glory of Jesus, otherwise they would truly believe. See John 1:14)
Cross reference with 2 Corinthians 4:4

What seems to be at the core of the sort of faith Jesus is looking for?

(A perception of his glory and faith in his word)

Finish the study by asking your group how the man with the sick son perceived the glory of Jesus (saw his grace, mercy, compassion, faithful to his word, etc.). And then ask them how can perceiving the glory of Jesus help them out in the trials of their lives (the examples Rich used were wanting a house, a spouse, wanting healing, wanting money, security, etc.).

Close in prayer by asking God to reveal more of the glory of Christ to your group so that they can respond in true faith.

3/7/17 3/7/17

Sermon Discussion - John 4:1-26

Here’s a few sermon discussion questions to help our church love God by applying his word to our lives. Feel free to use these questions for personal reflection, alongside your family, within a smaller discipleship/journey group, or even within the context of your Life Group. If you missed Sunday’s sermon from John 4:1-26 you can view it online here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KfSTe-BNTAM
Pastor Aaron said that we all have a disorder, the desire for something more or something different. “If only… then everything would be good.” It’s a thirst that we think we can satisfy in various ways.

TPQ: What are some of the cultural “if only’s” for Fort Collins? What have been some of the “if only” desires in a previous season of life?

An unusual route – 4:1-6
Jesus heads back to the Galilee area from Jerusalem, and this meant He could go north through Samaria. The history of conflict & animosity between the Jews and Samaritans was well known, so much so that Jews normally would go around rather than through the region of Samaria.

Q: Am I open to the Lord leading me to a place or situation where I’d rather not go? In hopes of becoming vulnerable, what is that place?

Q: If you are single, how can we begin to turn our focus to what we have (a tremendous opportunity to serve the Kingdom of God) as opposed to what we don’t have (i.e. a spouse)?

An unexpected meeting- 4:7-10
When Jesus asks the Samaritan woman for water, He goes against a number of expected conventions: speaking with a woman, a Samaritan, and especially a woman with a ‘loose’ reputation.

Q: What are the cultural divisions we need to cross in order to offer Christ to someone? Who would be the “Samaritans“ in our culture? What are the places we avoid, to not be seen with ‘certain people’? Where is the “well” in your life that you can meet and engage with these identified folks?

We also see the scope of the Gospel in this. It’s open to all people from all backgrounds. It’s also a gift that is offered, not something that can be earned. The Samaritan woman is offered the gift regardless of her background. The same is true for each of us.

The ultimate thirst quencher- 4:11-16
Jesus offers her a source of never ending satisfaction, of something that will continue to meet her need, quench her thirst. She had tried to fill her longing for affection and security through multiple relationships, yet nobody satisfied the need.

Q: What have I been looking to, running after, that I think will satisfy my soul’s longing? Another way of asking this, what have I been willing to be pleased with but in reality have settled for that is far less than what I really want & need?

Jesus offers her (and us) the source of eternal life.

A unique approach to worship -4:17-26
She changes the subject and deflects to a debate about worship. Jesus sets her straight about what makes for true worship, truly connecting with God. It’s about recognizing who God is and approaching Him in truth (the scriptures), empowered by His Spirit.

When it comes to our worship, we’re called to gather in community, to immerse ourselves in scripture and to pray to the true God.

Jesus makes an amazing claim that demands a response, that He, Himself, is the Messiah, the one that both the Jews & the Samaritans were looking for.

Q: Do you know someone who needs to consider the claims of Jesus, someone who realizes they’ve been thirsting for things that don’t really satisfy (like relationships, money, or status)? How might you be the one to show them who Jesus is, how He is portrayed in this Gospel? (Specifically, how is the gospel good news to them and what are some next steps to take and share that with them?)

Next week’s passage: John 4:27-45

2/27/17 2/27/17

Sermon Discussion Q's - John 3:22-36

Here’s a few sermon discussion questions to help our church love God by applying his word to our lives. Feel free to use these questions for personal reflection, alongside your family, within a smaller discipleship/journey group, or even within the context of your Life Group. If you missed Sunday’s sermon from John 3:22-36 you can view it online here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GGxDQg42hjU
The sermon’s title is Humility: The Perfect Remedy. Humility is defined as a modest or low view of oneself. Humility is the perfect remedy for pride which is defined as an excessively high opinion of oneself. In light of these definitions, let’s jump into some discussion questions.

TPQ – Thought Provoking Question: Pride was characterized as lethal and destructive. What are some stories (outside the bible) that depict pride leading to a great demise? This can be answered on a “macro or micro level” as Aaron described in his sermon.

1. – Everything is given from heaven

Read verses 25-27. Where do you see the pride in John’s (the Baptist’s) disciples statements? Why do you think they were responding in this manner?

The Baptist reminds them in verse 27 that everything received is given from heaven. What are some things, that you received today, that you can respond with humble gratitude to God for?

Often times we can respond in a prideful manner when someone or something (church, business, ministry, etc) has more ‘success’ than us. What are some of the emotions displayed in your life that overflow from a prideful heart?

There was a quote in the sermon that said this, “Humility is not thinking more of yourself nor is it thinking less of yourself but it is thinking of yourself less.” How can we begin to cultivate more of this gospel humility in our lives?

(think through v. 27, as well as contentment and gratitude) 1 Thessalonians 5:18, Philippians 4:11 – responding with faith and a kingdom mindset in light of my or others circumstances.

2. – See your calling/role correctly.

Aaron used the illustration of a Navy Seal Team and that each member knows the role they play on the team. John the Baptist knew his role and at this time he knew that he must decrease. It’s vital that we are to understand our role too.

We are a body comprised of many members. Each member has their own unique gifting and role that they play within the body. Take some time and reflect not on your own role but on the roles fulfilled within your Life Group. Speak words of encouragement to one another as you identify gifts you see within individual’s lives.

Some softball questions for this: – How have you seen this Life Group’s gifting come out when a need arises? What are some of the roles of this Life Group and how do you see them being fulfilled by the individuals within this Life Group? One of the best ways to identify spiritual gifts is in the context of the Christian community (not the spiritual gifts test!)

As a side note/study, check out v. 31-36 and try to identify the role’s of the Trinity within this passage.

3. Believe in Jesus

John 3:31 states, “He who comes from above is above all.” This is clear in regards to Christ’s authority. He has all authority in heaven and on earth – Matt 28:18-20. But, how often to we submit to that authority?

What are some areas in your life that you must decrease and Christ (and his authority) must increase? It’s helpful to identify these areas when life is difficult – circumstances, relationships, experiences.

What areas of your life are you prone to run to the world first as opposed to Christ? (world – own understanding, success stories, counsel outside of church) (Christ – himself, his Word, his people/leadership)

In light of John 3:35-36 RC Sproul says this:

“The whole of Scripture speaks to us of the love of God for His people, but so often we fix our attention on God’s love for us that we forget that the ground of that love is the love that the Father has from eternity for His Son. Remember, we’re not the natural children of God. We’re the adopted children of God, and even our election must always be understood to be in the Son. It is because of the Father’s love for the Son that we can stand forgiven before the throne of God, delivered from wrath unto everlasting life. It is because of the love of the Father for the Son that we are invited to partake one day of the marriage feast of the Lamb. We are invited not simply as friends of the Bridegroom or as friends of the bride we are the bride. Christ our Savior has set His love upon us and betrothed us to Himself. He who died for us will cone again someday to receive us to Himself Then we will rejoice with Him in the final increase of His exaltation.”

Real simply and practically, how does the gospel drive us to humility each and every day?

Memory verse: John 3:27 – John answered, A person cannot receive even one thing unless it is given him from heaven.

Next week’s passage: John 4

2/21/17 2/21/17

Sermon Discussion – John 3:9-21

Hey discussion leaders, I hope this provides some helpful questions as you revisit this last week’s sermon with your Life Group or family!
Teaching goal:

God’s display of love in John 3:16 magnifies the glory and worth of God above all else, and this is very good for us.

Application goal:

That people would have a greater sense of peace because they know their acceptance before God depends on his work and not on our own.

TPQ:

What is your favorite movie/story that is about love? What is it about that movie/story that you enjoy so much?

What is the greatest gesture you’ve ever made in order to show love (or appreciation) for someone else?

Read John 3:9-21

Intro Questions:

(Note: if you didn’t do the study last week, here would be a good place to recap John 2:23-3:8 and Jesus’ teaching on being born again)

John 3:16 is probably the most well known verse in the entire Bible. Why do you think that is?

Why do you think that people don’t really know John 3:19 as well as John 3:16, they’re only 3 verses apart?

(This is the main question we’ll answer throughout the study, but give it to people so they can start chewing on it): What do you think people will misunderstand if they read John 3:16 without reading John 3:17-21?

Looking at the Text:

The passage starts out with Nicodemus still confused about what it means to be born again. Is there anyone in your study who is still confused as well? It’s ok if they are, Nicodemus was a religious professional and he still didn’t quite grasp it. Why do you think he was still confused?

What is Jesus’ response to his confusion?

Answer: a rebuke. “Are you the teacher of Israel and yet you do not understand these things?”
And an Old Testament example (John 3:14-15)

Interpreting the Text:

Read Numbers 21:4-9

What is the problem the people in Numbers 21 are facing? (Fiery serpents and death). How are they saved from the serpents bite? (Looking to the bronze serpent). What is the result of looking to the bronze serpent? (Life)

Why do you think Jesus turns to this story while he’s talking to Nicodemus? How in the world does this help us understand what Jesus is going to do on the cross?

Depending on how much your group feels like talking, this may require some explanation. You gain life by looking at the bronze snake. You gain eternal life by believing in (looking to) Jesus. The serpent being lifted up was a sign of the people’s rebellion and their punishment. Likewise, when Jesus is lifted up on the cross (see John 12:32-33), it is a sign of our rebellion and punishment. On the cross, Jesus became sin for us (1 Corinthians 5:21), he became a curse and punishment for us (Galatians 3:13). In a sense, Jesus became a snake so that we could be welcomed back into the presence of God.
If you like preaching gospel to your group, let it rip.

Read John 3:16

This verse starts with the word “For,” meaning that it is explaining what came before it (the story of the serpents). How does understanding the story in Numbers 21 begin to help us understand the love of God in 3:16-21?

What kinds of qualities typically make someone or something lovely?

What are some of the qualities of the world in 3:16-21? What do we learn about the world from verse 19? What does the world love? What does it mean that they “love the darkness”?

Why do you think some of the best love stories ever written entail stories of sacrifice and loss? Do you recall the story from the sermon about the father, the son, and the bridge? What was your reaction to it?

What makes the love of God in these verses so unique compared to the way non-Christian culture talks about a loving god? When non-Christians say they believe in a god of love, what did it cost their god to love them? What did it cost our God to love us?

Who actually ends up looking lovely in all of this? (God). What is it about God’s grand gesture that makes it so lovely? According to John 3:16, who is God’s love offered to and why is that significant? (whoever believes)
Personal Questions:

What are some ways that knowing God loves you on account of his Son’s work for us change the way that we think about love? Does it make you more joyful or less? Why?

How could knowing that God loves you for his Son’s sake make you more joyful?

What is the greatest loss that you could possibly imagine happening in your life (loss of money, loved one, etc. be specific)? How does contemplating losing the thing you treasure most help you understand the heart of God in John 3:16-21? How does it differ?

Do you feel disappointed at the idea that God loves you for his own glory’s sake instead of loving you for being a great person? Why might someone feel disappointed because of this? How should it make us feel? How do you think the teaching on needing to be “born again” can help us see God’s glory as a good thing?

Closing remarks:

We learn three great things from this passage in John 3:1-21. First, we are dead and need to be made alive, and God the Spirit accomplishes that in our lives by breathing life into our spiritual lungs. Second, we are condemned and need to be forgiven, and God the Son accomplishes that by dying in order to pay the penalty for our sins. Third, this all comes from the love God, and knowing this will help us see his glory (John 1:14, 1:18)

Final question: how can knowing these truths help you walk through tough seasons in life (doubt, despair, frustration, sin, etc.)?

The answer I’m aiming at here is that you can find profound security and peace knowing that God has secured your salvation and this truth is a life raft in the storms of life.

For God – the greatest Lover
So loved – the greatest generosity
The world – the greatest tragedy
That he gave – the greatest sacrifice
His only Son – the greatest gift
That whoever – the greatest openness
Believes – the greatest simplicity
In him – the greatest attraction
Should not perish – the greatest rescue
But – the greatest difference
Have – the greatest treasure
Eternal life – the greatest experience.

2/18/17 2/18/17

Sunday Gathering, February 19th

Here are a three simple ways to prepare your heart:

1) Read through and meditate on the text that will be preached that Sunday with your family or friends.

2) Sing, listen or read through some of the song lyrics that we will sing together and ask God to grow and strengthen our faith and understanding of Him through them.

3) Pray for God to reveal Himself to you and the The Crossing in powerful ways!

Worship through the Word:

John 3:9-21

Worship through Singing:

How Firm a Foundation Here is Love He Will Hold Me Fast The Solid Rock Rock of Ages (When the Day Seems Long)

2/15/17 2/15/17

Sermon Discussion – John 2:23-3:8

Hey Church Family. Here are some discussion questions from Sunday’s sermon. Take the time to discuss these either at life group, or with family and friends. We pray that you spend time reflecting on God’s word, and that your faith will be strengthened through this time. These questions are available to help facilitate that.

John 2:23-3:8

A solid, fundamental foundation is important in any context. This passage tells us about one of the foundations of the Christian faith. The concept of being ‘born again’ is crucial.

Jesus says one must, not should, be born again.

Why be born again? (2:23-25)

Some of the people in Jerusalem were ‘believing in His name’ but Jesus knew their belief was superficial, that they needed a deeper change. There’s a selfishness to this kind of belief.

Q: Why do I believe in Jesus? What am I seeking from Him? Has my belief led to love for Him?

How is someone born again? (3:1-5)

Nicodemus was a leader of the people, part of the Sanhedrin. He comes to Jesus at night, seeing that things are different with Him. Nicodemus wants some ‘one on one’ time with Jesus.

Q: Do I make ‘one on one’ time with Jesus a priority? Are there practical suggestions I might have to help someone else who struggles to make one on one time a priority with the Lord?

Jesus makes the need to be born anew clear, and Nick is confounded. His thinking on a material, horizontal level cannot comprehend this idea that is spiritual & vertical thinking.

See Ezekiel 36:24ff to see the actions that God takes to change & renew His people. This is all about the theological concept called “regeneration”- a work of God, initiated by Him and brought about by Him, to save us & to change us.

What’s the effect of being born again? (3:6-8)

Our new kind of life allows us to grow further in that life. ‘Like begets like’. Once we’re born again (“born from above”) we can now live & walk in the Spirit, no longer dominated by our flesh (human sin nature). This lifelong process is called ‘sanctification’ where God changes us and shapes us more and more into the image of Christ. All of this is at the will & direction of the Holy Spirit, who goes & does as He wills.

Q: How has my life changed as a result of being born again? How am I continuing to be changed by God in my day to day life?

Q: In what ways is the Spirit moving in my life, my heart now? Am I open to His prompting?

2/12/17 2/12/17

Sunday Gathering, February 12th

Here are a three simple ways to prepare your heart:

1) Read through and meditate on the text that will be preached that Sunday with your family or friends.

2) Sing, listen or read through some of the song lyrics that we will sing together and ask God to grow and strengthen our faith and understanding of Him through them.

3) Pray for God to reveal Himself to you and the The Crossing in powerful ways!

Worship through the Word:

John 2:23-3:1-8

Worship through Singing:

The Church’s One Foundation Rock of Ages (Ascend the Hill) Crown Him (Majesty) Oh My Soul Arise Before the Throne of God – (Shane & Shane)

2/7/17 2/7/17

Sermon Discussion - John 2:12-22

TPQ – Thought Provoking Question:

When you hear the word worship, what comes to mind?

In the sermon introduction, I shared a few ‘optical illusions’ found in creation. Share a memory when you have been thrown off by an optical illusion?

Restored:

The temple was seen as a place to come and worship God. What do you know about the temple and the things that were to take place there?

Jesus zealously wanted to remove the obstacles that was preventing the gentiles to worship. How can we continue to remember Jesus removing the ultimate object (our sin) that prevents us from truly worshiping God? 1 Peter 3:18, 2 Cor 5:17, Galatians 2:20

Replaced:

What does Jesus mean when he says ‘destroy this temple and in three days I will raise it?’

In light of the passage, how is the temple being/going to be destroyed?

What does the temple ultimately represent? Can you identify some verses or passages that talk about God dwelling with his people? Gen 1:26-31, Gen 2, Gen 3:9, Ex 33:12-23, Ex 40:34-38, Lev 26:11-13, 2 Sam 7:1-17, John 1:14, Rev 21:1-4

Consider the implications of the church being the temple (along with Christ) from the following verses: 1 Cor 3:16, Ephesians 2:20-22, 2 Cor. 6:14-7:1 – How do we respond in worship to God in light of these verses?

Raised:

Why do you think John stops the dialogue between Jesus and the Jewish leaders with a question in verse 20? (Hint – the editorial note provided in verses 22 & 23)

Can you identify the difference between science and miracles? How can they co-exist? Are there any questions within the Christian life that you would like to find out more information on? If so, how can your Life Group help you with some of those questions?

Can you identify any of the evidence for the resurrection? Can you think through some practical implications in light of Jesus being raised from the dead?

Since God has intervened in the world and allowed not only his presence to come to us but also we can now be in his presence because of our faith in Christ. How would you say we are to respond in worship? Mark 12:28-34, Romans 6:11, Romans 12:1-2, Ephesians 4:25-28, Psalm 40:6-8, Proverbs 21:3

BONUS STUDY!

Compare the temple cleansing account in John to the accounts in Matthew 21:12-16, Mark 11:15-19 and Luke 19:45-47.

What are some similarities in the passage?

What are the differences? (Jesus’ focus, the quotes from the OT, context of the passage)

Jesus has a passionate zeal in this passage; some would even classify it as anger. Why is Jesus so fired up here? Can you think of verses or biblical characters that exemplify anger for the good or righteous motivations?

Next time you get angry, stop and ask these questions – why is this so important to me right now? What am I desiring (deep down) that’s causing me to respond with anger? How can I fix my eyes on Christ and respond with worship in light of the present circumstance?

Next week’s passage: John 2:23-3:8. We suggest you take some time read it and pray for our church in preparation for next week’s Gathering.

1/27/17 1/27/17

Sunday Gathering, January 29th

Here are a three simple ways to prepare your heart:

1) Read through and meditate on the text that will be preached that Sunday with your family or friends.

2) Sing, listen or read through some of the song lyrics that we will sing together and ask God to grow and strengthen our faith and understanding of Him through them.

3) Pray for God to reveal Himself to you and the The Crossing in powerful ways!

Worship through the Word:

John 2:1-12

Worship through Singing:

1/24/17 1/24/17

Sermon Discussion John 1:35-51

Here’s a few sermon discussion questions to help our church love God by applying his Word to our lives. Feel free to use these questions for personal reflection, alongside your family, within a smaller discipleship/journey group, or even within the context of your Life Group. If you missed Sunday’s sermon from John 1:35-51 you can view online here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7R1Uk1OBfx
In this passage, we’re reminded of two pillars in Jesus’ ministry:

‘Come and see’
‘Go and tell’

Come & See—

Jesus asks the followers of John “what are you seeking?” (what do you want?) and they answer back with their own question “where are you staying?”. Christ invites them to “come and see”, to follow Him and live and learn.

Q: are there questions I bring when I consider following Jesus? Do these questions draw me to Him or draw me away from him?

Aaron shared his experience of having his mom die suddenly years ago and how this could’ve drawn his family away from Christ but instead it drew them closer. And Rita observed all this and saw the depth of their faith.

Q: who is in your life, watching you and observing your relationship with Christ? How are they drawn to ‘Come & See’ who Jesus is?

Go & Tell—

We see these first followers (Andrew, Philip) telling their friends/family about Jesus and leading them to Him.

Q: when is the last time you told someone about Jesus and who He is to you? Who can you be talking with about Jesus?

Jesus interacts with Nathanael, revealing His knowledge of Nathaniel (and His knowing what was probably Nathanael’s secret place). Nathanael responds with acknowledging Jesus as the Messiah, the Christ.

Jesus tells him that He is the connecting point between heaven and earth. We all have a ministry to let others know who Christ is and that He is the bridge between heaven & earth.

Q: who are you in relationship with that needs to know who Christ is and that He is our bridge to the Father? Perhaps God is using you as a bridge as well. Discuss how this might be?

John Memory Verses:

Next Week’s Passage:

John 2:1-12

1/21/17 1/21/17

Sunday Gathering, January 22nd

Here are a three simple ways to prepare your heart:

1) Read through and meditate on the text that will be preached that Sunday with your family or friends.

2) Sing, listen or read through some of the song lyrics that we will sing together and ask God to grow and strengthen our faith and understanding of Him through them.

3) Pray for God to reveal Himself to you and the The Crossing in powerful ways!

Worship through the Word:

John 1:35-51

Worship through Singing:

The Church’s One Foundation Rock of Ages (Ascend the Hill) Crown Him (Majesty) Oh My Soul Arise Before the Throne of God – (Shane & Shane)

1/17/17 1/17/17

Sermon Discussion - John 1:19-34

Here’s a few sermon discussion questions to help our church love God by applying his Word to our lives. Feel free to use these questions for personal reflection, alongside your family, within a smaller discipleship/journey group, or even within the context of your Life Group. If you missed Sunday’s sermon from John 1:19-34, you can view online here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O8m9RnqBTJg

Pastor Aaron opened his sermon with the legacy questions of, “how will people remember you? & what will be the testimony of your life?” Potential TPQ’s (Thought Provoking Questions) could be: How would you answer those questions honestly? Have you given much thought to what you would want shared, sung and preached at your funeral?

In the sermon, Pastor Aaron mentioned that some of us can feel the weight and responsibility of saving people. While we might not confess that outright, our underlying motivations and actions towards sharing the gospel might paint a different picture. A few questions here:

Why is it a liberating truth that we are called to be the testifier and not the savior?
How have you seen yourself try to be the savior (or play the role of the Holy Spirit) as you shared the gospel with someone? Thoughtful honesty is helpful here!
What type of testifier might you be? (bearing witness to a historical Jesus, a refreshment from a bad experience in religious circles, a non threatening person someone can ask questions to)

“Behold, The Lamb of God, who takes away the sin of the world!” – John 1:29b

What are deep truths of Christ’s sacrifice can you behold this week?
- Romans 3:25, Heb 2:17, 1 John 2:2, 4:10, 1 Peter 2:24, 3:18
Can you think of some of the OT shadows that were fulfilled in Christ being the Lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world?
- Gen 22:8, Isaiah 53:7, Lev 14:25, 16:15-22
- Revelation 5:6-13, 7:17, 21:22-23, 22:1-3

Application

Do people connect your life with Jesus? Not with a church, or that you’re a religious/morally good person but are you connected primarily with Jesus?
Relational Evangelism Circles – where you live, work, and play!
- Identify 3 people in each of these circles.
- Pray for them often (daily, every other day, weekly at your Life Group or Journey Group.)
- Identify one way you can bring someone from your community into their life.
- Trust the Lord to share the gospel with them this winter (and think practically how you might do that.)

John Memory Verses:

John 1:1
John 1:14
John 1:29

Next week’s passage:

John 1:35-51

1/14/17 1/14/17

Sunday Gathering, January 15th

Here are a three simple ways to prepare your heart:

1) Read through and meditate on the text that will be preached that Sunday with your family or friends.

2) Sing, listen or read through some of the song lyrics that we will sing together and ask God to grow and strengthen our faith and understanding of Him through them.

3) Pray for God to reveal Himself to you and the The Crossing in powerful ways!

Worship through the Word:

John 1:19-34

Worship through Singing:

The Church’s One Foundation Rock of Ages (Ascend the Hill) Crown Him (Majesty) Oh My Soul Arise Before the Throne of God – (Shane & Shane)

1/10/17 1/10/17

Sermon Discussion - Philippians 1:3-11

Hey discussion leaders! There should be more than enough here for a discussion to get going, so feel free to pick and choose whichever ones stand out the most to you. Hope it’s a blessing.
Thought provoking question:

When something difficult enters your life, are you more prone to act first and ask questions along the way, or are you someone who spends a lot of time contemplating your next move?

Similarly, when difficulty enters your life, are you more prone towards prayer or towards distancing yourself from God? Has there ever been a circumstance in your life that was difficult at the time but you are thankful for it now?

In the sermon, love was defined thusly: “the overflow and expansion of joy in God that meets the needs of others.” What do you think of this definition?

Assuming this definition is correct, when Paul prays for our love to abound more and more, how would that look? Read Philippians 2:1-11 and discuss the above definition and Paul’s prayer in light of that.

Does your joy in God compel you to serve others? Why, why not? How do you think The Crossing is doing at experiencing joy in God and love for others? Where can we improve?

Think through Paul’s sequence of how his prayer unfolds from abounding love (v.9) culminating in the glory and praise of God (v.11). How do you understand these parts relating to each other? Describe the difference between mere knowledge about God and knowing God. How do you read the Bible in such a way to ensure that you are getting to know God, and not merely facts about him?

For the above question, here are some reminders on definitions:

Knowledge is epignōsis, meaning knowledge from experience.
Discernment is aisthēsis, meaning moral clarity, seeing things the way God sees them
Approve what is excellent indicates choosing the best of several good options
Purity/sincerity is eilikrinēs, meaning purity of motivation, not self-seeking
Blameless is aproskopos, meaning not causing others to stumble
Rigteousness, in the case of Philippians 1:11, indicates practical righteousness

In the sermon, the three things needed for the fruit of righteousness were to be planted, to be pruned, and to know the love of the Gardener. Read John 15:1-5 and discuss how planting, pruning, and love help us grow.

At the end of the sermon, it was argued that God’s act of love toward us was seen at the end of verse 11, “to the glory and praise of God.” Why would God need to be glorified? How does God’s glory relate to our love (this is similar to the above sequence question)?

Read the following quote and discuss how it relates to the above definition of love:

“God is the one being for whom self-exaltation is the most loving act, because he is exalting for us what alone can satisfy us fully and forever. If we exalt ourselves, we are not loving, because we distract people from the one Person who can make them happy forever, God. But if God exalts himself, he draws attention to the one Person who can make us happy forever, himself. He is not an egomaniac. He is an infinitely glorious, all-satisfying God, offering us everlasting and supreme joy in himself.” (John Piper)

Unbelievers are capable of doing all sorts of loving things, but in the sermon it was stated: “If you look into the heart of God and don’t see his love for you, then you will never be able to joyfully go out and genuinely love and serve other people.” What would distinguish Christian love from love expressed in service by unbelievers?

1/8/17 1/8/17

Sunday Gathering, Jan. 8th

Here are a three simple ways to prepare your heart:

1) Read through and meditate on the text that will be preached that Sunday with your family or friends.

2) Sing, listen or read through some of the song lyrics that we will sing together and ask God to grow and strengthen our faith and understanding of Him through them.

3) Pray for God to reveal Himself to you and the The Crossing in powerful ways!

Worship through the Word:

Philippians 1:3-11

Worship through Singing:

10,000 Reasons How Deep the Father’s Love for Us The Solid Rock Come Behold the Wondrous Mystery Jesus I My Cross Have Taken

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Sermon Discussion – John 4:39-54

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Sermon Discussion Q's - John 3:22-36

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Sermon Discussion – John 2:23-3:8

John 2:23-3:8

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Sermon Discussion - John 2:12-22

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Sermon Discussion John 1:35-51

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The Crossing Church

I tell you the truth, whoever hears my word and believes him who sent me has eternal life and will not be condemned; he has crossed over from death to life.
-Jesus

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John 2:23-3:8

The Crossing Church

I tell you the truth, whoever hears my word and believes him who sent me has eternal life and will not be condemned; he has crossed over from death to life. -Jesus

I tell you the truth, whoever hears my word and believes him who sent me has eternal life and will not be condemned; he has crossed over from death to life.
-Jesus